So, after a good two years of being unhappy in my marriage I've decided to separate from my husband. He's left and I feel so relieved, don't miss him at all. For context it has only been two weeks so far. I feel like I've let my kids down as they love their dad so much but I just couldn't be in an unhappy marriage anymore.
My stbxh isn't an awful man but some of his behaviour over the whole course of our relationship has been awful and it slowly eroded away my feelings for him till their was nothing let but disgust. As I'm writing this I know I'm making the right decision but there is still this underlying fear of 'am I making the wrong decision'
The only downsides I can see to ending our relationship is 1) my kids won't get to live with their dad full time anymore 2) I will be a lot worse off financially... but I will be FREE!! He turned into a complete sex pest and would sulk terribly if he didn't get his own way and the thought of not having to deal with those pressures anymore is amazing.
I guess I just want a bit of a handhold and to know if any of you ended your marriage and truly don't regret it and were happier single?
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Can I truly be happier single?
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hp1990 · 18/06/2020 10:54
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