At what age are child preferences fully taken into consideration? As far as I'm aware this is at 10 years old. My children are aged 9 and 6.
I'm currently getting divorced and there have been allegations of parental alienation and emotional abuse against my ex (please see my previous post about emotional abuse).
The reason I mention this is that it appears she is attempting to alienate me from my children. For example, she is consistently undermining my parenting ability and personal appearance in front of them.
She has told them how often I will see them in the future. Of course if you ask them, they now day how many nights they want to spend with each parent. Her argument is that a court would be unlikely to go against their 'wishes'.
As I understand, their wishes would be taken into consideration but they can't make their own decision until they are 10 years old. Is this accurate? Unfortunately the longer this goes on, the more she will try and alienate.
My own view is that there is no valid reason why they can't spend more time with me. She simply doesn't want them to.
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Children's preferences in custody arrangements
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atr79gb · 11/03/2020 16:49
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