My ExH and I have been separated for 4 years, finally divorced last year. Things haven't been easy, with the last year or so being extremely difficult with his behaviour. It is getting increasingly hard as my 2 girls are really unhappy when it's time to see their dad. They see him for 2 overnight stays a week but when these visits are imminent thet become tearful and withdrawn, such a change from their usual happy boisterous selves. They regularly ask why they "have to go to daddy's" and they wish they didn't have to go. Obviously I try and "smile it" off as "daddy wants to see them and spend time with them" "I know you will have fun once you are there" but it is getting harder and harder. They were both crying before we left then in the car, I tried to cheer them up with some "happy music" but as they got out they began crying again. It breaks my heart my heart to see this, I had hoped it would get a little easier but it seems to be getting worse. I have now been asked by exH what was wrong with the girls last night. I have no idea how to respond. The girls are 7 and 9.
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