I’m financially dependent and need a plan to get out. Gave up career to look after kids 5, & 2. Retraining but new career tends to have part time work only, paid roughly 25-30k pro rata. Will take me about another 6 months to finish training. DH earns a lot more. We own our house outright, it’s worth about 600k. Cost of living is high in our city, though maybe I could move just outside. I won’t be able to afford childcare for DC2. She’ll be entitled to free nursery hours in September, though. Don’t feel confident about being able to support myself and children in a house big enough for them. I have almost no pension. DH has good pension so overall he’d be in much the better position. I think he’d probs want close to 50:50 share of time with the children, if that’s in their best interest. What would you do?
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