Hi, first time posting and i am just after a bit of advice. My ex and i are seperated and we have a 5yr old daughter. We have a contact arrangement i place and i have the resident parent. My DD has come back from her dads this weekend mentioning her sister but her dad told her not to tell me....
My ex had a child 10+yrs ago, he has never had anything to do with her or wanted anything to do with her. Since we have seperated he struck up contact with her again and is now trying to orchestrate meetings with his estranged daughter and our daughter.
The issue for me is that my ex barely knows his daughter and has been back in her life for less than a year after 9+yrs of being absent. So i said that i think he should build up a relationship with her first before involving our daughter in meetings.
He told me that he will do what he wants whilst he has our daughter and that he will not allow me to dictate to him what happens...... i am trying to look after my daughters mental health here. A sister has popped up from nowhere with no explanation and he wants to play happy families. I am under no illusion that they will meet at some point but i think it is too soon right now.
Any advice please??
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Ex wants to introduce estranged child
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W1048797a · 02/02/2020 19:34
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