How do you successfully co parent with a parent that deliberately chooses to do the opposite of you?
So this weekend just gone.....
He picks up from school but won’t tell he has because “I did not realise I had to message you with my movements”. He lives in Devon and I won’t know he’s arrived on time unless the school phone to ask why they haven’t been picked up. I’m in London at work so not helpful. I don’t need to know his movements, just a quick “ive picked the children up”
Saturday was him going swimming.......no shower afterwards for our daughter who has long, thick hair. Not even a quick in and out to wash off the chlorine
Sunday he told me he would bring back in time for swimming lessons (I paid for the term). Now he’s saying he won’t. I asked that the children he bought back in time for bed (7) so I could do a bath, hair wash and story with our 6 year old. He replied hours later saying he would be back at 9. He brought them back at 10.30
Our 6 year old fell asleep in the car (understandably) but he hadn’t even bathed her or got her into pjs. She was asleep in the clothes she’d worn all day (including the trampoline park)
Our 15 year old needed to shower and get his things ready for school. It’s his GCSE year and doesn’t need to be going to bed at 11 pm when he has school the next day
So no baths or showers all weekend, no set meal times or bedtimes, lunch is sometimes a packet of haribo
How do I deal with this?
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Missteebeee · 28/01/2020 11:24
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