I have been divorced for a few years and separated for 6.
My DDs have seen their dad regularly. I find him very difficult, selfish, egotistical and unable to see fault in himself. DD doesn’t know I feel this way since I don’t believe she should hear negative things about him from me.
DD1 says she isn’t a priority to him, he only cares about himself and will become very angry with her if she doesn’t want to see the film he suggests, for example. He regularly turns up late, invites his friends on their days out so he has other people to chat to and has never once been to a parents’ evening or done homework with them.
She has decided not to see him at all, refuses to call him Dad and will only speak to or text him to tell him she doesn’t want to see him. She has been referred to a specialist for anxiety and sees a counsellor.
ExDH says I should be forcing her to see him or forcing her to get in his car. I absolutely refuse to do this. He is furious with me and says he will take legal advice and see me in court. I’m assuming he can’t do this. I really have tried to mediate between them. My other daughter still sees him and is happy doing so.
I suppose I would like someone to tell me I am right not force her. I think this goes far beyond teenage hormones. And can he take me to court? I’m in Scotland if that makes a difference.
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13 year old DD wants no contact with her dad
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HumousWhereTheHeartIs · 24/01/2020 10:46
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