I've posted previously about my husband leaving - he left 3 weeks ago saying he was struggling with his mental health and my DD was the main issue. I spent the first week in a mess, crying, anxiety, nausea, not sleeping and not eating. The next 2 weeks were better and I had my 'fuck you' head on especially after he told me it wasn't a temporary split by text (I'd hoped it was only temporary).
He came round at the weekend while I was away and took the rest of his stuff. All I got was a note left about boxes and keys! I thought I was ok but ended up in tears and haven't really stopped since.
I text him yesterday about divorce papers and he said he was surprised I was doing that. I said he'd shown he didn't give a shit about me so I wasn't sure why it was a surprise. He told me he was struggling and he was sorry. He wants to stay in touch and for us to be amicable. We have no children together so no need to stay in touch but it has stupidly given me false hope.
How do I get over this? My head is a mess. I keep trying to think I'm better off without him but I just want him home.
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Fairycake2 · 04/12/2019 21:00
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