Exdh and i separated 15 weeks ago. He hasnt worked for the last 15 year's and i supported him.
We're now on the middle of a horrific separation instigated by me.
Im devastated but cant carry on with no life anymore.
He's taken it badly and moved back to his mother's as he has no job but plans to rent somewhere with the help of the local council apparently. He's registered disabled and is now in receipt of benefits as a single person.
He has text me today with a list of things he wants from the house. Including the TV, the stereo, all the old furniture ( kids beds ) etc in the garage.
Half the xmas decorations half the linens, obviously all his personal items and clothes. The garden chairs, umbrellas etc. Basically anything else gifted or given to us by his family .
I understand he has to start again and is hurt by me, but is this the norm ?
Is this fair?
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What is reasonable for ex DH to take from the house?
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Winona45 · 14/10/2019 16:06
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