So I applied for a divorce almost two weeks ago. I’m still yet to hear if he has agreed or contested it through my solicitor. Things aren’t amicable at all so I won’t ask him.
He’s not been helping me with any of the bills and didn’t pay the mortgage this month. I had to beg him for help as I am on unpaid maternity leave and he finally gave me half towards the mortgage and said to send him a list of food and he would go and buy it. He missed several items off the list he didn’t think I needed such as shower gel and foil?! I have spoken to the mortgage lender who say they will do affordability checks to ensure he mortgage gets paid. He said he doesn’t care about his credit rating so won’t pay the whole mortgage. He has only agreed to half. I am willing to sell the house but not right now whilst in maternity leave. I have asked him to allow me until January. He’s been gone 6 weeks.
I have information that he’s been looking at 50k cars and applied for a loan through his bank which thankfully was declined. He has just recently applied for a 0% balance transfer credit card which has been accepted.
As part of the divorce my solicitor has advised I apply for maintenance pending suit to cover my legal fees. It won’t cover he mortgage or bills aspect.
I am terrified he is trying to get into debt to show he has no spare money to pay mortgage or for legal fees?!
Any advice please as I am at a loss. Can I ring the bank? Will this affect me as I am still his spouse?
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Divorce process, him racking up debt
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Cantsleep22 · 13/09/2019 13:21
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