Compared to other's stories this seems so very trivial a reason to split up.a family but I'm at my wits end.
I feel like my DH does nothing to contribute to our family - yes he works and takes the bins out and sometimes loads the dishwasher but that is really it. He takes no real responsibility for anything else - i cut the grass, trim the hedge etc. It is like he just doesn't see the bigger picture and get that larger things need to happen. He is a procrastinator and perfectionism which even if he does realise something needs done, or I ask him, it rarely does it due to not having the perfect tool or is done so slowly it never gets properly done. He can't see reality and get someone on (cue flat screen t.v. sitting on floor for 9 mths and 3 different wall brackets bought). He seems to get completely overwhelmed incredibly easily and would love in chaos when a couple of hours of sorting things out ( his study) would make life much better.
I'm finding the resentment I feel at carrying our whole family increasingly toxic and that rather than asking I have to instruct him with harsh threats to get anything done.
I work full time too - i get up at the crack of dawn to do so - and am beginning to hate him for it.
This seems a bit trivial though to break up a family.
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Yiddytod · 08/09/2019 21:25
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