My husband and I have been together 12 years, married 4. We have been trying for a baby for 4 years unsuccessfully. We have lost a pregnancy under traunatic circumstances and have had 4 unsuccessful rounds of IVF. It has broken us.
There is nothing in the world I want the way I want a baby and I cry just seeing pregnant women. Over the last 4 year's our relationship has suffered as we have have become bitter at the our loss and lack of success. We argue most days over everything. Nothing significant but things like ive talked over a tv show or because one hadn't helped the other enough, has put something in the wrong place, has said the wrong thing etc. etc. He is really seriously irritable Like ready to snap any moment, every moment. He's lost his bubble and I can't remember the last time we laughed or had fun. every day is arduous. We have a few days of things being nice and I cling to it, then it deteriorates again.
We were due to start another round of IVF in a couple of weeks and had stopped drinking etc. My husband started drinking again 3 days ago saying he didn't care because he wasn't going through with the treatment as our marriage is a mess. He wants a divorce. I absolutely do not. I have suggested counselling which he has begrudgingly agreed to. He continues to state I'm no longer his problem and he will buy me out of our house. I'm breaking as I just want him back.
Is there any chance counselling will work and we can get back on track?
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Celerysam · 04/09/2019 18:48
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