Here goes - I'm new to all this so please bear with me
I reported ExH to police for harassment due to incessant toxic phone calls/texts/messages etc. 1st officer, not too bothered about it so left it at the 'just so it is on file' kind of stage. Fast forward a week and its getting worse so I ring it in again.
2nd officer couldn't have been more different, definitely harassment and could apply for a non-mol order. However I decided that maybe the police speaking to him may be enough to get the desired effect - just for him to stop.
Fast forward 3 weeks and I finally get a call from the 1st officer to tell me that ExH has been spoken to that day.
Had a message from ExH saying no harassment will be logged against him and he's been told by the officer that I'm taking him to court over custody.
I'm not going to court over custody and told him as such.
Then ExH messages again 2 days later to say police have been back in touch with him to say he's done nothing wrong but that I'm going to family court.
I guess I'm asking if this would be the case? Surely if he had done nothing wrong, the police would have contacted me to say there is no case to answer and wouldn't have rang him. And surely knowing the situation, they wouldn't have disclosed family court etc even if it was true? I've asked for an update on my incident number, but may be this time next year by the time I get an answer I suppose.
Has anyone any similar experience?
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Whydonttheycomewithamanual · 07/06/2019 13:28
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