I want to 'friendzone' the father of my child

[katie9090]

I've been with him for 5 years and we have a 2 year old daughter.
I can't really say anything bad about him but I'm just not attracted to him anymore. He's a great father and a lovely person, it's just that I don't really want to be in a relationship with him anymore and I feel terrible for even thinking this but I can't help how I feel.
I feel like I'd be much happier if we separated and co-parented. Is there any way I can tell him this without seeming unreasonable?
I still love him and like him as a person I'm just not in love with him anymore.
I hope this all makes sense.

[tvaustin]

This is how my wife feels about me. We have been together 19 and married 14 but my wife told me 2 weeks ago she just loves me as a friend and it has hit me hard. Good luck!!