Having this constant battle with Ex H. We aren't even in the first stages of divorce despite him telling me he's done the paperwork on his side. He still loves me & I understand that can make things harder especially when it comes to children. (We have 1) He can't stand being around me, but constantly over text or will send me long messages about how he feels, where we went wrong, that he can't face being around DD because she's like me. Then he supports me & helps out with DD, then backs out again. I'm so frustrated because it means any plans for overtime I have to cancel & it also means my usual shifts are a struggle too. DD won't go to his anymore because it's too far away from home (45min drive). I feel like ex h wants me to help him all the time but I don't know how anymore without feeling like the only option is to get back with him to make him happy. Why does he do this? It's been almost 10 months now!
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