I've never posted on here before but I'm finding it hard to talk about my husband leaving me. I was just hoping for some support and suggestions, also somewhere to just speak my mind.
This time last year my husband started an affair with someone he works with, our son was only 9 months old at this point. I found out after a miserable Christmas of him just being distant but proclaiming that everything was fine! When I finally got him to talk he admitted that he had been with a woman in her mid 40's, he was 26! I was shocked and couldn't understand what she had and I didn't!
I thought that it was due to me having had a baby and have a large proportion of my time to looking after him, that my husband had felt a bit left out but we could get over it and I would give his some more attention and get some baby free time together.
Everything seemed good again despite me being ill for a couple of months (all sorted now). Until 6 weeks ago when he said he had had enough and was leaving. Wishing a few days he had taken everything from the house.
I have now found out that he is back seeing the woman from before. I can't help but feel she is manipulating him. I don't want to close the book on it all just yet and I feel like he needs my support for some reason. Any ideas?
We have been married for 3 years and together for 8, never really argued and I felt like we were great together before all this!
Sorry about the long post!
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Husband left me for an older woman
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Kirstyandson · 13/12/2018 21:38
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