Hi,
I’ve never posted before. I’m going through a very acrimonious divorce from husband. Following an emotionally and financially abusive relationship, I told him I wanted a divorce last year. He is a bully, spiteful and very intimidating and also has a very short fuse. He moved out in January and has a very well paid job. I look after our 2 young children, 3 and 5 years old. He’s been threatening to not pay mortgage and I’ve had to spend most of my savings on getting legal support. He let this month’s mortgage bounce and has been pushing for the house to be sold as he wants to get his hands on the equity to buy himself somewhere to live but that would leave the children and i homeless or in rental with no means to generate full time income easily for me whilst looking after them and doing school runs etc.
After receiving the letter from Mum solicitor demanding he confirms if he will pay the mortgage this month, or we will seek interim maintenance support from him, we came back afternoon school to find him in the house and he said he was now staying. House is joint mortgage. I ended up sleeping at my parents as tension was escalating and he refused to tell me what he was doing there and I’d have to speak through my lawyer if I wanted to speak to him. Kids were distressed so I thought best to deescalate. Called police but they never came out even though they said they would.
Please can someone give me advice or any help at all? Can I get him out of the house? He has broken furniture in the past with his temper. Very disruptive to the kids routine who see him every other weekend and spend time with him in his new flat which he rents which is 50 miles from our home.
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Urgent! Ex husband just moved back into our house!
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Greengarden123 · 11/07/2018 09:49
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