I’m pretty convinced that my OH doesn’t love me. I’ve been thinking this for a while and I’m not sure I love him anymore. He’s the type of guy that wouldn’t leave an unhappy relationship and will just bumble along. He has never ended a long term relationship.
Anyway we’ve not been getting on. Or rather he just will not talk to me. Last time this happened I asked him to leave but he won’t. He is living with me under my housing licence and that gives him a right to work where we live. If we separated then he would probably get his own licence due to the fact he has a child living here.
We live in rented accommodation and both of our names are in the lease. I do not want to leave because he wouldn’t be able to afford it anyway, I could increase my hours to cover the rent until I find something more affordable and appropriate. It’s close to my dc’s childcare and close to my work. I do all the running around taking dc to childcare etc so it’s very convenient.
He will not leave.
How can I convince him that we need to be grown ups about this and move on?
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How to separate amicably
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Mumao · 07/06/2018 20:45
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