I've nc for this as I don't want dh to see this but I could really use some advice please.
Dh has left me and dc and I don't know what to do now. I'm not well and am struggling to think clearly.
Previous history includes alot of mh issues on my part, I worked through these with intense therapy and meds and was doing well for quite a long time but over the last year the issues have risen again and I am back on the long road to getting help.
I have huge trust issues and ptsd so can sometimes be quite distant and not affectionate at all. Dh had an affair a few years ago and we tried to make it work but I guess the trust was never really there again. Dh works away alot and I've kind of resigned myself to the fact he could be seeing anyone whilst he's away, I don't have any proof of this now though.
Fast forward to now and I'm having a bit of a breakdown. Life is stressful all over, young dcs that I do 95% of the care for, a full time job that I squeeze into part time hours and illness on my side of the family.
This is the moment that dh has decided he needs to go. We own a house but it doesn't have a lot of equity in it, dh earns more than double what I do. My dc are my world and I'm gutted for them, this is not the life I envisaged for them.
I don't know what to do now. I need to provide stability for the dc but I feel dead inside. I haven't slept at all last night, haven't eaten for the last 2 days and am poorly so this all just feels too overwhelming for my head.
Would appreciate any advice or even just some company. Feeling very alone right now.
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needsomeguidanceplease · 20/03/2018 08:55
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