Can I ask for some advice please.
I'm separating from my EA H. Initially it was him that suggested splitting, but when I finally agreed on the 4th or 5th time he has changed his mind.
Therefore what I thought would be amicable is now acrimonious. In fact I suspect he only threatened separation thinking it would frighten me into complying to save the marriage.
I'm getting keys for my rental next week which he's not happy about. It'll take a couple of weeks for me to have it furnished and ready to move in.
I thought we'd be better giving dd age 7 as much time as possible getting used to the idea, poss involved in choosing bedroom stuff etc.
H things we should wait until I have it set up like a home and can take her to visit etc. As then she'll know facts rather than worrying about what it might be like.
But I'm not sure whether this is springing it on her rather than giving her time to process.
What have others done/think about this?
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Borris · 23/02/2018 22:27
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