Have been separated for one year, divorce/shared childcare all organised relatively amicably. I was sahm, now work but flexible part time, ex-h semi retired. kids now 13 and 15, they see him every Thursday after school and EOW but he still has tendency to see me as default parent - responsible for all sick days, docs appointments etc. but we have had words about this on many occasions and agreed that we are responsible for kids until school pick up on day after they've been with us (though we've both been flexible - me more so than him)
He had kids last night and took them to school this am (ds on crutches atm so couldn't walk). He then flew to France with his new gfriend. I only found out about this when I picked kids up from activities this evening. he will be returning on Thursday afternoon a couple of hours before kids get home from school to him
Is it unreasonable for me to ask him to inform me if he's going to be out of the country and therefore not able to cover child related emergencies or potentially be delayed in taking up his parenting duties? I have so far always told him when I've been away, and will continue to do so. I'm not expecting to know where hes going, or who with, but I don't think its hugely controlling to ask that I know if hes going to be more than a few hours away from his kids in case of emergency.
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Do you tell your divorced co-parent if going abroad?
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MrsMcGarry · 02/02/2018 21:45
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