Hello all
My DH is finally moving out mid feb. After much deliberation & heart ache iv decided I will be happier without the resentment he causes me to feel and he feels it's time he stood on his own 2 feet... so all is amicable (for now)
As a single parent of 3boys 3,5 & 7 things will need to change in the house. What do those of you who have lived this situation think to me changing the routine straight away when he's gone.
I mean practice things like - instead of a parent waiting in the room with the kids till they fall asleep (as happens now). I intend to stand and do my ironing at the top of the stairs so they know I'm close but I won't be in the room. Also I was going to try to incorporate bath time for little ens with eldest doing his homework/reading book in his bedroom (so we are all upstairs together etc)
Do you think I should just tell them nicely how it's going to be from now on and then do it!!? I'm scared!!
Iv asked a few questions on here tonight if anyone wants to check my other posts and help out xx thanks
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Should I change routines when DH moves out?
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Gordonbennit · 17/01/2018 18:37
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