‘Just about Ex’H and I decided to separate a few months back but are actually making the move in 2 weeks, 50/50 arrangement, we are at a stalemate when it comes down to how to sort out money for shared expenses. Invariably I do most of the spending on the kids ie school uniform, new shoes etc. He wants me to bill him for what I buy (and vice versa) whereas I want a joint pot. He is refusing the joint pot as not a fixed cost like bills!
Would love to hear how others are doing it- billing, joint pot or something else...
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How do you manage children's costs in a 50/50 arrangement
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ChangingStates · 07/01/2018 22:21
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