Firstly apologies for starting another thread.
My husband recently told me he wanted to separate ( he had had an affair). We are waintjng until post Xmas to tell the kids. In the meantime he is sleeping in the attic.
I’m really struggling with truly understanding and accepting my marriage is over. My husband is doing this weird thing of being very friendly and chatty and acting like nothing has happened. I find it very difficult knowing how to respond to this and I think it is just adding to how unreal it all seems.
I will end up having to sell my house, buy somewhere much smaller, change childcare and most likely move my kids school - basically I am losing my life and my children are going to be devastated. In my head I understand this and at times and devastated - but still there is a small part of me that can’t beleive it is real and wishing something would magically happen to make it ok.
I really want that bit to go - I hate myself for thinking it when he has been so awful to me. How do you move to fully accepting everything is over and your life will change so fundamentally?
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Accepting it is over
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Ilovecrumpets · 13/12/2017 19:46
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