Inspired by the other thread from a mum to little ones, what works well for people with older kids?
My dc is in secondary school. I work PT from home, Stbx works full time but could start to work at home a bit more. He also works away now and then - maybe four nights a month on average. In the past during the holidays he's said he'd take two days a week off but it ended up being one a fortnight typically.
In school hols I really don't think dc would be happy loafing around alone and likes us being around. After school a couple of nights a week dc could let themself in if dh is back later.
I have in mind 60:40 (split the weekend) but in reality am wondering how practical this is and how it could work?
Do you let the older dc decide for themselves? How much of a set routine is needed versus ad hoc 'oh you're working away so I'll have him tonight' type flexibility is possible especially given this can impact child maintenance?
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Split of time for older children (secondary school age) - what works well?
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digitallyremastered · 04/12/2017 13:42
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