Can anyone help with the order of things?
H has agreed to start the financial separation (pension valuations and house valuations etc) but doesn't want to start the divorce 'cause there's no urgency'. He wants to divorce by 2 year separation but its been going on so long that i want it to be quick, via unreasonable behaviour. There's been plenty of that, but to be honest, i could agree to me taking that hit just to get it done! If we do it his way, no fault separation, can we include the time we've been living separately but in the same house?
He says we don't need form E and can do it all by mediation. I'd be happy with mediation.
But could he change the terms of the financial agreement before we divorce. He been very EA and verbally assusive so i just want to not be tied to him for longer than i have to.
I have had legal advice, but that was when he agreed to do a diy divorce by unreasonable behaviour. My solicitor (chosen but not engaged yet) will draw up the consent order.
It's just that i don't want everything to be compromised became of the slow divorce process.
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Consent order/form E before divorce?
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WhentoD · 23/10/2017 12:55
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