Hey all. New here. I am going through a mostly amicable divorce. No lawyers, 50/50 with kids and expenses.
My Ex has always had a volatile temper, often yelling, name calling, punching walls. A few times of pushing, grabbing, and spitting. Hence the reason I left him about a year ago.
My Daughters often say things about how the only thing Dad does is yell and we have a very open discussion about how much that stinks and why it's not okay but it just breaks my heart. But last night I got my kids back and the oldest was in "a mood" and had a little melt down (yelling and throwing things at her sister, and then yelling at me)
After getting her to calm down, we had a talk about what was bothering her, and she told me that over the weekend her Dad got very intoxicated and they got in an argument. He got angry with her for asking him why he was still up. Anyway, he got angry and started yelling and calling her names. When she sassed back (this girl never backs down) he pushed her, told her to go to fucking bed and he didn't want to look at her face anymore.
She doesn't want to get her dad in trouble, and makes excuses for her. I just don't know what to do. Please any advice would be great
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pudgy1977 · 17/10/2017 14:33
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