Hi all,
I need some advice and I'm hoping someone on here can help.
My child is 1 year old and his father walked out at 16 weeks. He was extremely emotionally abusive and controlling towards me after my son was born and after he left. I agreed to supervised contact twice a week at my property as I had numerous legal threats but this recently stopped as I had to call the police after he became extremely verbally abusive to me in front of my son. He took me to court and I had a hearing for CAO last week. The cafcass officer was totally biased towards my ex's contact requests. He ignored all my allegations of emotional/verbal abuse and the evidence I brought with me including police and professional reports. He stated emotional abuse is subjective and I cant prove it. His whole conduct was unprofessional at one point accusing me of being controlling and difficult. It was a horrendous experience. I was forced to settle for unsupervised contact every Saturday as I was told he could recommend every sat/sun. I work full time so I would never see my son. I've raised a complaint and have a support worker from Womens Aid looking into this. I'm also considering asking permission from the court to contest the order.
Does anyone have experience of bad cafcass officers and how did they deal with it?
I had an undertaking granted so my ex can never contact me. All handovers are through a contact centre. I also have agreement my child will live with me with the contact being every sat with his dad.
His father is now starting to demand access to my sons nursery even though he's going to see him once a week stating these are his PR.
Can he do this? Is this in breach of the order which states every sat for contact?
Can he take my child? If he does can I get the police to get him back as I have an order?
I'm at my wits end with his behaviour and its causing me no end of stress.
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Child Arrangment Orders and unprofessional Cafcass officer
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MaryB123 · 10/10/2017 17:07
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