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Divorce in process, applying for absolute in about four weeks hopefully, family house completing week on Friday and my DS and I are moving into my new house. Despicable exw narc been mouthing off about how our son wants his daddy to come into MY house to cuddle on the bed with him, show him his room/new toys etc. Ex using emotional blackmail saying we both have to agree to this for the sake of our child or he will be fucked up if we don't. Also he doesn't want to be 'one of those dads that drops off and picks up at the front door'! That was exactly my plan as he is a vile agressive, manipulative tw@t who I want as far out of my life as is possible! However, I had no intention of telling him this until I was out of this house because of his hideous aggressive abusive nature. So I've obviously alluded to this today and he says I'm being selfish, we need to show our son we can be civil (I cannot even bring myself to be remotely civil to him at the moment as I despise him that much). Am I being unreasonable here and failing to take my son into account? I feel like I'm missing something here why we cannot agree as adults that, given we are divorcing (affair and gambling addiction on his part) we do handovers at the front door? He's a habit of confusing me so much with his shit that I actually doubt my own sanity and decision making. Views would be much appreciated. Anyone with any experience with this type of handover, would be appreciated in terms of how your child reacted to it! Thankyou
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Despicabletwatmorelike · 19/09/2017 16:37
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