Hi
I'm in the process of arranging a divorce with my wife. Its amicable (ish) and I want to try and keep it that way. We're just doing the paperwork ourselves and Im using an online divorce service for the forms/consent order.
We've come to an agreement that we both agree to and that I want to get put into a consent order. I just wondered if anyone could comment on if this is fair in their view? I think it is and my wife is happy with it. But I wondered if legally it would be viewed as fair by a judge and if they'd agree to the consent order.
The arrangements are quite simple really.
We have 4 kids. They will live with me. They can see my wife whenever she wants. It varies but at the moment its just a few hours a week on a saturday. Shes never had them overnight in the last 10 months.
I earn approx 3200 net per month
She has just finished training as an animal nurse and works 20 hrs per week. She earns around £600 per month.
Assets are just
UK house - net equity of £30K
Second house - net equity of £100K
Other Debts £16K
Total net assets of £114K
She wants to go off on her own and be financially independent. She wants her own house mortgage free.
Ive said I'll pay for the children and bear all costs.
I'll also give her £100K (which I'll borrow) and she will use this to buy a house (she's already found one she likes).
She is happy with this. From my perspective I earn more than her but I'm left with all the debt and will bear the costs of raising the children. She can see them whenever she wants.
Does this seem fair?
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SpanishCaravan · 14/09/2017 19:15
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