I'm on the verge of telling my DH I want a divorce and I'm just feeling horrendous. I'm sure it's the right decision long-term, but I feel totally overwhelmed by the shitstorm I'd unleash if I went through with this. We have 2 young DC who would have their lives tipped upside down, we'd have to sell the house, my ageing parents would be devastated, etc etc. I'm sure it's the usual dilemma many of you have faced but I feel SO guilty and selfish. Any advice on how I can cope, practically and emotionally? I'm sleeping terribly, crying a lot. I've started the practical planning for life after but it seems terribly complicated with paperwork and finances in particular. Also any hopeful stories about children or advice on how to look after them? I feel frozen with horror but inaction isn't an option, our current home life is grim. And I just can't pick up the pieces again, I've spent too many years trying to sort things out without success, including couples counselling. Thanks in advance...
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