We have been together 13 years and have two DCs. Over the past year I have definitely had one foot outside the relationship - he has had no qualms about pu tting me down and is rearly unaffectionate. A few weeks ago our relationship reached crisis point and we has the staying / leaving chat. He has been trying really hard but in my mind I am just thinking of how I might leave him and how it would affect the children. I was hoping that when we made the decision to give it one last shot I might feel differently but I really don't. A part of me still likes him (just not love him) and I want him to have a good relationship with the children. I just worry how awful it might be for the kids if we separate. Is it likely I will get to a better place with him at some point? I don't want to give up if there is something worth salvaging but I am also aware that hanging on might make it harder to leave in the long term and be harder for the kids.
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