Currently working through separation from financially and emotionally abusive H while constantly hearing from DS 1and 2's teachers about their meltdowns at school. Both have ASD and the marriage breakup has thrown all the hard work at getting them to behave well down the drain. Have to go pick up #2 son from school today because he trashed the classroom and threw a desk. He hasn't behaved like this in three years. It's because of the separation. I have no family to help and H is barely around. Every time I start to plan a way to retrain for a new career or think about returning to work the autism behaviour throws in a wrench. Soon to be XH works in the city and now has an apartment there so he is out of reach for help. I feel so trapped!!!! Will I ever get a chance to live my life for me AT ALL EVER outside of dumping the kids at a hospital and walking away (not that I would ever do that). H needs to work to support us, even if divorced. I don't know how I would get him to help as he can take 90 min to get to where we live (even when we were together)... I want to scream sometimes.........
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how is this my life? seperation, special needs, all on my own
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user9000 · 27/03/2017 20:06
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