I have no idea where to start but I don't think that DH and I can go on the way we are so I think I'm looking for practical advice about divorce.
Starting with any facts that might be relevant:
We have 2 DS (4 and 2).
Our mortgage is about £250k outstanding and the house worth about £350k
Savings are £20k (joint)
I'm a SAHM with no income
DH is duel citizen U.K. and Canada
My questions:
I want my boys to primarily live with me
I'm happy to downsize but rent/mortgage on a 2 bed will be approx £1000 pcm plus bills. How does financial support from DH work? How much approx would it be?
I'd immediately look for part time work, full if necessary but it would be tough with school runs etc but I'm not work shy at all.
How does custody work - could he take my boys to Canada? Are there steps I should take to prevent this? He's not a malicious man we just can't live together
How would I get a mortgage if I don't work/until I find work?
I currently don't get any benefits including child benefit as DH earns above the threshold - what could/would I be entitled to?
Apologies for the brusque format I just need some clarity before I get too far down the path of no return. My boys are too precious to screw this up. If I need to suck it up either way for them, I will, they are my world. I'm grateful for any advice.
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OrchidFlakes · 18/03/2017 22:03
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