We separated a year ago and my ex has not been working in that time. We had debts, personal and business and I have had to make arrangements with those we owe to agree monthly payments for these. He just ignored them, but its my address on file and I am jointly liable so if neither of us pay then I am the one who will get the letters, calls and visits.
Ex is now starting a job, 4 days a week (£44k) and the 5th day and evenings he will be working for himself (he reckons earning £300 a week but will no doubt not be honest about this so I may have to ignore that).
I am living in the house we lived in together but it is rented.
I can presumably start claiming for child maintenance now he is earning, but does anyone know if I can claim towards the rent for our house as well? Currently my parents are helping me pay.
Also should I consult a solicitor regarding the debts, wondering if I can get him to pay his half of them too now he has money? I'm just unsure as to whether we should just agree the financial side ourselves and do the divorce as cheaply as possible (ie £550) or if we should involve solicitors. As we have no assets I am wondering whether solicitors will just cost so much it may not be worth it.
Would the CAB be able to advise on this kind of stuff too does anyone know?
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hatty44 · 17/02/2017 17:52
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