After years of on/off with EA ExP , I've left him (again).
He won't fucking leave me alone though. Messages about how much he loves me, the kids want us back together (they don't!)
The messages are all about what HE wants! He's saying it's not fair that I let him think things were okay between us again (I was doing what I thought was best for the family- I got I wrong!) he's using the fact that I don't hate him and we can have fun together as a reason to get back together.
In reality life is so much calmer without him around! No treading on eggshells, no waiting around to see what he wants to do, organising our time around his work/ leisure commitments. Having to see his god-awful family!
Yes, it's bloody hard work having an 11 yo with suspected ASD, a 2.9 year old and a 4mo baby, but I need to know that I can do it!
He's still messaging, "all these things can be resolved "
I don't want to be horrible to him, but I wish he would leave me alone!
What can I say to him? Anyone been in this situation?
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lovelilies · 09/11/2016 10:51
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