Can some one advise me.
I have been separated from my husband for four years - he was very violent/abusive to me (on/off over 20 years), but never violent towards my daughter. (I'm talking to the extent he was taken to court for GBH against me).
He always showed so much love to her, until his new partner of now a couple of years. For their first year together he didn't see our daughter due to jealousy issues of his new partner, but now sees here about once a month.
He pays nothing in maintenance, always promises too but never pays up - but that is incidental.
There is no formal, custody/visitation plan it has always been ad hoc - although he did sign a letter when first seperated saying she was better to live with me (due to him being a chronic alcoholic at the time).
He picked her up Thursday and made it clear shes not coming home until I get her as he isnt prepared to do travel both ways - he now lives about 90 miles away.....I dont have a driving licence, I've never passed my driving test.
She has asked to come home, any advice as to what i can do?
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child visitation/transportation issue - urgent
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user1471719477 · 20/08/2016 20:25
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