Any advise PLZ long long story but ex-husband is passing threats through children to me, or threatening my boys to get to me. He hasn't lived at fmh for 2 years and was arrested for dv which started divorce, I found prior to divorce he was taking steroids and a lot of them at that furling an already aggressive temper. Problem now is he's sending his illegal shipments to me from Thailand, then when I refuse to allow sons to pass it to him he starts. The last being a few days ago I did open package as I wanted to see what it was, I also videoed its contents labels etc he tormented both my sons to try & get package which I refused to give them to ferry to him as I don't want my boys carrying drugs even if it is in a box. He's got his own place too but being a rat won't risk it so decides to send it to our home. He called my eldest 21 other day in front of youngest of 17 with special needs and completely lost the plot, told him he was going to gut him, batter him, what he'd do to me now divorce is over telling my poor son I need to learn and do as im told he will send what he likes to his house. He owns 30% I own 70%. My boys are devastated by him and im petrified of him or what he will do. Solicitor says he can have things sent to me as he still coOwns property? Even though she knows it's drugs? Police were not very helpful and didn't care when he was arrested about the drugs & no charges were brought as cps said dv, drugs etc wasn't worth the cost of investigation prosecution. So I'm lost can't sleep feel trapped, heart broken for my boys and scared stiff. Any advise PLZ were to turn I don't want to have drugs getting shipped to me for him either?
PLZ plz any comments? Thanks in advance guy's
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Help!! Ex-husband threatening me via children
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Pandamanda3 · 15/08/2016 10:34
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