Could some kind soul enlighten me on this please? We have agreed to get divorced, for now we're still living together but separately in the same house. It's politely amicable but nevertheless horrid!
Settlement should be fairly straight forward, no dependents, house is the only significant asset which has been valued and we have verbally agreed that I will buy him out on a 50:50 split. I have a mortgage offer agreed in principle for this.
I want him gone ASAP, he wants his money, but the solicitor I saw for my 30mins free advice says as it's the marital home he is entitled to stay until the divorce is granted. She also advised not giving him any money until he has signed all necessary divorce paperwork as a bargaining tool - he's an alcoholic, not really functioning in the real world at the moment. He could also dispute receiving the money and said it was better to do it through the consent order.
Have I got this right in my head? I wrote a lot of notes and am trying to disentangle them , everything being coloured by my overwhelming desire to legally shut the door on my ex and be able to move on with my life!
Am I best to sit tight, get the divorce moving and manage my own expectations that this could be 6 months before its resolved?
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Confused about how divorce and financial settlement are connected?
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cherrycoconut · 04/03/2016 11:21
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