OK, so recently separated. We have 3 kids. (6,4,2)
The problem is that h only ever takes the girls away when they go to stay saying 3 is too much to cope with!
He took them for a week at christmas and these holidays but my son is so upset when they go. He's been so miserable without his sisters and I'm sure he feels angry.
H wanted me to have an abortion with son (I don't know if this is related) but I didn't. he was unplanned and I couldn't go through with it.
I don't know if he just can't be bothered to put the extra effort in. (my son is just a typical 2 year old really, not difficult to handle or anything) or if he is 'teaching me a lesson' (he often did stuff passively like this) or plain rejecting him.
He didn't speak to him on the phone all week when the girls were away or bother to call him.
It's really upsetting to see but i don't know how to deal with it.
We haven't been through mediation or divorce so we are just doing it by ourselves atm.
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Dad takes two but not three of the kids...
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turkeylovessprout · 22/02/2016 22:56
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