My soon to be ex has insisted that my oldest 2 children (who live with their Dad overseas) cannot come home for Xmas and that they have to stay with my Mum. They are 13 and 16 and have only just (last term) moved to live with their Dad. Obv I am v excited about seeing them at Xmas and so is their half brother, my youngest son who is 4. I have decided to leave my husband for many reasons, not least his attitude towards my oldest two who are good as gold. However, my name is not on the deeds of the house, and I do not want to let on before Xmas in case I come back from my Mum's and find the locks changed. Could have the older 2 here but risk husband being horrible to them and I would not want that. Having had a long standing agreement that I can take DS2 (4 year old) to my Mum's on Xmas Eve so we can all celebrate Xmas together he is now saying I have to pick him up on Xmas morning. This means I miss stocking opening with with either big kids or DS2. Husband does not even celebrate Xmas, he is Muslim. He says he has taken the week off to spend time with DS2 (I will be working up until Xmas eve afternoon), and therefore wants to spend all of Xmas Eve with him. I am raging. What should I do? Cannot think straight because I am so angry. Believe me as soon as I am back in the house I am registering my interest in the property, getting an occupation order and him out. Help... pease don't let Xmas be ruined. I want nothing more than to celebrate it with all my children together.
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