I need some hand holding here. I'm a bit unusual in that I've been the main earner by multiples in our relationship. DH had always opted to pursue career interests that he enjoyed but didn't pay well so he "could never afford" to pay the mortgage on our small flat in central London. I finally paid it off so several years ago so I could afford to send DS, who is preparing for 8+ exams in January, to private school. Relationship with DH was going down the pan over the past year as I have never forgiven him for his 2 affairs but it hit a low point when I found out DH has frittered away all of DS school fees monies that had been set aside. I can just barely afford to pay for DS pre-prep school fees and nanny on my own. DH has refused to move out of of our flat because he said he can't afford to rent and pay half the school fees and nanny. His daily criticism, interjections when I speak to DS, are making me miserable. I can hold out until January 2016 until after DS's exams. He is a bright boy and I'm damned if I'm going to let his feckless father rob him of a private school education that I've been saving up for all these years. How do I tell DS that his father's moving out?
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How to tell DC and his carers you are getting divorced
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iwillsurviveagain · 15/11/2015 12:05
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