Hi all,
Bit of advice needed - xh left over a year ago now,leaving me with 2 young children.he parents in a completely different way to me and I'm wanting to drop to EoW next month-have been seeing dad mid week for tea every week and 1 night 1 w/e, 2 nights the next due to my work up until now.xh not keen and doesn't seem Ds is either.
Dd (4) seems to be adjusting ok but Ds (7) very much a daddy's boy.always seems to come back unsettled from xh and still says thing like I wish you and daddy were back together etc.takes at least a day to get him back into routine with me whenever he comes back from xh.
Xh parents differently to me,no focus on education,doesn't seem to positively reenforce what I'm doing , for eg. Going on a once in a lifetime hol soon that xh was never keen on and now Ds who has previously been excited about it says he doesn't want to go as he's going to miss daddy. Also ds has struggled with anger issues which me,do and pastoral care are trying to give him techniques to learn how to deal with it whereas xh is trying to encourage boxing lessons etc.
Any advice how to move forwards?xh refuses and has refused from the beginning for mediation etc.
Tia.
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A year on-any advice?
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Newtodating · 18/10/2015 21:21
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