Hi all I'm new here and this is my first post. I had to seek comfort in some kind of forum...I feel so lost, confused, alone, angry , my emotions just keep changing.
Its a long story but basically my husband has been working abroad...he was away for 10 months out of the last 12.
I have been left to look after my autistic child and another child by myself.
I have waited patiently for him to come home on the odd occasion he did and put my life on hold until maybe this travel bug left his system.
He came home recently for 3 weeks.
We had an amazing time as a family and we decided he would leave the job abroad and we would start a fresh with new wedding rings etc...
As soon as he went back to work, his attitude changed drastically...
He said he was never coming back, that he had simply changed his mind, that he loved me but he wasn't in love with me...
I was devastated and sure there must be another woman involved...2 days ago he confessed he has a date next week, I don't believe him, I believe this has been going on for sometime.
The hurt and sorrow I am experiencing is like no other...its unbearable, I cant sleep or eat ...I cry every day and at work, I cry in the car....
I just need to know if anyone has any advice for me if you've got through the pain...because at the moment I cant see me getting through this it hurts so much...
hes refusing to speak to me after 11 years of us being very best friends...he was my life.
thank you if you read this or offer words of comfort or advice ..I would appreciate it x
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bluedaisy72 · 24/09/2015 17:32
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