Ignoring court orders

[jaKent321]

Does anyone know what will happen if I ignore a court order and stop access? My son goes to see his father fortnightly and the night before he goes he wets the bed and and when he returns he wets the bed. He cries that he doesn't want to go as his father frightens him and shouts. I left his father due to mental/emotional abuse and I know what he is going through.
He is nine years old and saying he can't take any more.

[LalaDipsey]

I have absolutely no idea but would strongly suggest you get legal advice and get your GP/health visitor support and back up also and get his distress logged. Big hugs. This is exactly what I dread should STBXH ever want to take the children overnight and utterly support you to fight this. Pls call a solicitor/legal aid/women's aid/GP/everyone until someone backs you up x

[DiscoDiva70]

I agree with Lala that you should get legal advice and document everything down. I would also advise you to make a court application yourself if possible to have the order discharged. Good luck

[Toffeelatteplease]

Get legal advice. Stopping access never goes well. In my own case it gave them a year off and then the court ordered longer access as there wasn't enough proof (physical violence) and it was deemed I was being disruptive. As it was it never got quite as bad as was ordered as ex didn't comply with conditions.

[RandomMess]

Absolutely speak to the school and ask that they urgently find him a counsellor. You really need independent evidence to back you up.

Desperately sad for you and your ds

[DiscoDiva70]

Have you decided anything yet op?