Sorry, me again! I'm filing for divorce, mutual decision to divorce as we haven't been happy for a number of years. Young child involved so we just want things to be over and done with quickly. All of the advice services in my local area are closed until 5th January, when I will be seeing someone in person to help me muddle through; I have to apply for housing, benefits, etc.
Anyway, the unreasonable behaviour section to fill in. When I start to write the reasons down they read to be quite trivial. As there hasn't been any dv etc. There has been ea but its hard to explain it. Also I don't want to paint stbxh as a complete arse (even though he is), as it may create problems with him getting defensive etc. But in a nutshell I was continually placed bottom of the pile, especially during pregnancy (I had severe sickness, ended up on drips in A&E, garlic was one of my triggers. He insisted on continuing to eat garlic so I'd be unable to keep even water down and he refused to sleep in separate beds even though the smell had me throwing up through the night. See, sounds trivial but actually really wasn't!) and after birth of our child it became worse. MIL waded in. Suffice to say we have shared a house but nothing more for the last three years. I've finally plucked up the confidence to realise that I'm going to be ok by myself, as apart from a physical presence I'm doing this by myself emotionally anyway. So even through the incidents are small compared to what others have been through, are the courts likely to grant me my freedom?
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TheEndIsInSight · 30/12/2014 09:05
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