My ex and I split six months ago due to his infidelity and compulsive lying.
He lost his job not long after the split and currently lives with his mother.
He has not paid my any maintenance since he's been gone as he's unemployed.
He doesn't even seem to be making any effort to get a job and I text him yesterday asking of he has any work as I'm struggling to survive on this money and his reply was he likes being a bum and why would he get a job so I can take all his money off him.
We have three boys together and they don't come cheap. I'm very stressed out with Xmas coming up to.
He said when he does get a job he will buy things for the boys but won't pay me anything.
My friends and family are now saying I should stop access but don't like playing games where my sons are concerned and even if he is a useless piece of shit my sons love him.
What would you do.
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Would you stop access?
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Tweetypie27 · 29/10/2013 12:23
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