Try to make it short. Ex moved out 18 months ago and boughtt house with new g/f and got married. I am in our old joint home - joint mortgage - with kids 4 & 8 yrs. he pays child maintenance as worked out on the child maintenance website. I pay all the bills and mortgage out of his money, my 2 jobs and benefits.
5 weeks ago I went on a course with work (crap job I hate) for women - get more motivated etc as its a very male dominated workplace. That night kids dad was hassling me about money and share of the house - I feel I am Being stitched up - I' m quite naiive I guess and not good at looking at big picture. That day of the course We were asked if we had a 'supportive partner' at home. I thought OMG no, I don't think I have. My gorgeous darling of 4 years lives across town . I stewed quietly for a couple of days before seeing him and before I could say I felt unsupported he told me he had met someone else (more spiritual) see my thread in relationships. So since then my head had been completely f**ked and I still haven't addressed the house / money issue. Both my jobs are Insecure and my mortgage provider (I.F.com) said if I want to take kids dad off joint accounts then I would need to remortgage too so he still has access to funds I rather he didn't. He wants a % share in house not an actual Amount . Is that something other people have come across. He's being a Tw*t coz I had an affair - but I strongly believe he was too- and he's happily married to her and living in the countryside .