My mum was diagnosed with Alzheimers in February of this year, although we were fairly sure she had that or Dementia for at least 6 months prior to her diagnosis. She is in her late sixties and my dad is 9 years older than her, and although he is very fit physically and mentally her needs have dramatically increased since the start of the first lockdown. She was prescribed medication in February which she began taking, then in April she got very depressed which made her symptoms much worse. My sister got in touch with the Psychiatrist who spoke to my parents over Zoom and changed her medication. This also coincided with some of the lockdown restrictions being lifted so she was feeling better mentally anyway but for a while she seemed to improve.
For a few months now I have noticed that her symptoms have worsened and she is no longer able to dress herself properly, she can't use any of the household appliances and it apparently takes hours for her to get up, have a shower and dress on a morning even though my Dad helps her dress. My Dad phoned me today to say that my Mum has had a bit of a "crisis" this morning and it's clear to me that things can't carry on the way they are.
I feel at a complete loss to help them, I'm 30 miles away, working and it's lockdown so I can't see them anyway. I was wondering if anyone else had experienced this and had any advice on how to make things easier for my parents? I wondered if getting carers in on a morning would help, but I know my Mum would feel humiliated as she is very much all there mentally, she just occasionally can't think of a word but it's mainly carrying out tasks that she struggles with. Sorry for the long post, I'm really struggling with this.
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Dementia and Alzheimer's
How to get Support for my Dad Caring for my Mum
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Lovestosing · 16/11/2020 16:22
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