Just want to get it off my chest...
DF has been struggling and is muddled in lots of ways up till now but nothing like this. He has always known who was who.
DF asked me yesterday where mum was (not sure whether it was mine or his he was looking for (we'd been looking through some photos). My mum died 4 years ago.
He also later wanted to know why she left him, he knew he'd done something to upset her but didn't know what. In fact they were very happily married for over 50 years, never separated, never any big rows as far as I know.
I was really upset - another step on the hellish dementia journey.
Can anyone help me on a practical level - how do I answer the "where is your mother / my wife question" when he has no recollection that she's dead.
Should I avoid looking at photos with him - he seemed more engaged that I'd seen him in a long time, and yet it seems to have caused this issue.
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Dementia and Alzheimer's
Difficult questions
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noarguments · 23/09/2017 16:47
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